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Quote from 臉紅紅

長駐國外的作者 Madeleine 為臉紅紅帶來英語教室的內容，這一期來聊聊婚後的性愛生活。（什麼，你以為婚後就沒有性愛生活嗎？）其實轉念一想，婚後的性愛，也可以很瘋狂有趣！

生活中許多負面因素影響和諧，工作上的壓力、心理上的不愉快，讓許多夫妻的性生活黯淡無光！（性愛知識家：令人嚇一跳！關於「偷吃」的真實調查報告）

不過所謂的 Married Sex 婚後性愛其實能有更多奇幻想像，來參考這五句英文句子提醒我們婚後性愛的各種好處！（臉紅推薦：愛愛變成例行公事？重啟性愛新鮮感必學五招）

1. When you're married, you don't have to worry about where the relationship is going.「結婚後，你不用太擔心感情會有不確定性！」

Are you hooking up too soon? Should you wait? Does it matter? When you're married, sex is just a part of your relationship. A very good, very meaningful part of your relationship, but without all the questions about what it means. You can have sex whenever you both want it without weighing whether it's the right thing to do. Seriously. Whenever you want it.

你問自己，我太早發生性行為了嗎？還是我需要等待？這些重要嗎？當你結婚之後，性生活是其中非常重要，且有意義的一環。當你想要發生關係時，你永遠都能享受，無需擔心對錯！（炮友與一夜情的抉擇）

2. When you're married, you don't have to worry about whose place to go to. 「婚後，你不用擔心發生關係的地點，不用擔心今晚要去誰那裡？」

There's a lot of stress to sleepovers when you're single. Having sex at his place means sleeping in an unfamiliar bed, praying that he's a neat freak and that his bathroom isn't disgusting and getting up earlier than you normally would to get ready. When you're married, what's his is yours, and you know exactly how clean the bathroom is.

單身時，大家出來玩，決定要睡誰那其實是挺麻煩的一件事。在他那兒過夜，代表必須睡在陌生的床上，心理暗自祈禱他愛乾淨，房間不至於太噁心讓人倒胃口。而當你結婚後，你們有一起的家，你也早就知道你們會睡在哪。（性愛知識家：睡不好嗎？找個伴一起睡吧！）

3. There's rarely any awkward moments in married sex. 「婚後，鮮少有窘迫的性愛時刻！」

Okay, sure, there might be the occasional awkward moment when he's lying on your hair or one of you gets a fit of giggles. But those moments aren't weighted any heavier than anything else you've ever done together. There's an intimacy, a sweetness even, to the awkwardness. It's something else you share as a couple.

搞曖昧的時候，頭髮被壓到，或是摸到敏感帶怕癢難說出口，怪尷尬的。婚後，這些都成了情趣的一部分! 床上的笨拙或不靈巧也是夫妻共同成長的一部分！（和他聊聊性 7 個性伴侶間該有的私密討論）

4. Shave, wax or go natural, it doesn't matter when you're married. 「要不要除毛？要怎麼除毛？婚後相較之下不再重要。」

Single women obsess over body hair far more than married women do. It's not because married women take less pride in their appearance or don't want to be sexually attractive to their spouse, it's simply because body hair ceases to be much of an issue when you live together and have sex regularly.

統計資料顯示，單身的人比已婚者更在意私處毛髮狀況。這當然不是說婚後女性比較不在意外表，而是當你們已經是固定性伴侶後，毛髮也相對比較不是重要話題。（私密處也有新氣象！三步驟教你修出比基尼線）

5. You don't have to watch the clock when you're married. 「月經什麼時候來？該怎麼算安全期? 不再只是你一個人的問題!」

When you're single, you're always on the clock. Single women have to take responsibility for their own birth control needs and often don't feel like they can rely on their partner for support. Being married means you're on the same team and you share the same goals. And not having to worry about birth control makes sex that much more fun

當你單身的時候，你默默地計算安全期，默默地擔心事前藥有沒有用。結婚後，你們是一個小組了，可能有共同的生育目標。而若你們都計畫想生小孩，性愛當然也可能更過癮。（當然你也可以參考想要性愛不要孩子）

人家說婚姻終究難抵擋歲月的消磨，但說實在的，婚姻後的樂趣實在還多著呢！

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